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Sunday, 9 June 2013

THE JOURNEY OF LOVE

Someone comes into your life,
Befriends you, He or she starts being so special to you,


That person becomes so close to you, He or she starts to mean everything to you, you start to miss that person, and you then realize that your life can't go on without him or her, you start missing food and sleep! Your life totally changes. That person promises you heaven on earth and He or she keeps on telling you that he/she is different from the ones you have ever had. You heart gets softened till you surrender it to that special person you call heaven sent.

Everything goes on well, you share good moments... but suddenly, he/she starts to change after getting what they wanted, He or she reduces on the texts and calls, they start to build up many excuses, That sweet heart of yours starts becoming too busy for you...You start to cry, plead and ask forgiveness but all in vain till you’re dumped and they move on.

You get heart-broken; you swear never to fall in love again. You start hating love, you start saying that all men and women are the same basing on what that heartless ex did to you, you start distrusting everyone. You live a single a life but after sometime, you start admiring your happy friends in love, loneliness squeezes you then you decide to try loving a gain. Another handsome dude or lady comes into your life, you start to think that he or she is heaven sent but still you go through the same process

Friends that’s the journey of love, No one who can escape it and no one who will never get heart broken.

So if you have someone who is treating you like a king or a queen, truly and faithfully love that person because true love is hard to find. Do whatever it takes for both of you to last longer. Don’t easily dump that person because of minor disagreements. Call or text that person, meet him or her and apologize.

Value that person’s effort and everything he or she sacrifices for you. Don’t take that person’s love for granted because someone out there yearns for that person’s love and care. They long to replace you one day. Think about it most especially YOU reading this.

“Guys this is my own simple write up straight from the bottom of my heart”

Written by Kings C Emmy

Friday, 7 June 2013

A MUST READ! This Is How To Live Your Life Right


When I stumbled on the information below, the first thing that came to my mind was a verse in one of Tuface Idibia's song which says "Malo ro pe, omo kpe iwo nikan lo ma lowo" which literally translate to mean that "you should not carry yourself too big, thinking that you're the only that will make money".

Below is a very interesting short piece to bring you back to the reality of life:
U used BlackBerry to oppress, now everybody has a BlackBerry.
U used ur Camry to Buga, now boys dey use Camry do taxi.
Before u dey use ur plasma tv dey swell... now dem don dey use am watch football for buka.
B4 u dey use ur ipad dey swag...now ipad na heavy load to carry comot 4 house.
B4 u go dey use brazillian hair dey form big girl, secondary skul student don dey wear am troway.
B4 u dey go vacation 4 UK dey talk pass urself,

but now boys don dey buy 1st class ticket dey enta London just to go lick ice cream.

BOTTOM LINE: 
No dey over do like say dat tin no go reach another person hand..
All na vanity, e dey fade like made in Aba Jeans..
No 4get say tortoise car na big man motor b4 o..
Notin wey com wey no get expiring date.. 
Even d life u're living, na borrow u borrow am..
Humility is the way of the wise!!!

Why Jonathan Should Fire FCT Minister, Bala Mohammed


FCT New Transport Policy: Mr. President, Can You Please Fire Bala Mohammed?

One of the attributes attached to Nigeria is that it possesses Natural and Human resources in large quantity. Considering this accolade, it hurts deeply to see some of our leaders come on board with a perceptible lack of clairvoyance. Their performance makes one meditate upon which category best suits them; a gift or burden to the nation...

In December 2012, speculations were rife that the Federal Capital Territoty Authority, FCTA, under the control of Minister of Federal Capital Territory, Senator Bala Abdukadir Mohammed, was set to put in place a new transport policy for the nation’s capital.

In January, the plan was announced via a release by the Minister’s press secretary, Mohammed Sule. The statement quoted Ms. Jamilah Tangaza, Bala’s Senior Special Assistant on Information Management Systems, as saying that the FCTA came up with the policy “to sanitize the system and get Abuja working by the year 2020.” In order words (and judging by recent events), we are attempting to become Africa’s London, while our people turn into slaves in their own land.

I doubt if Tangaza or her boss is/are aware that the comment is a slight on their overall Oga at the Top, President Goodluck Jonathan, who usually takes pride in describing Abuja as a model city. Well, Mr. Jona so you know; the time for pop Champagne is still seven years away.

Continuing, madam explained that the policy entail a restriction of operations of mini-buses, commonly called ‘Araba’, to certain routes and the high-capacity ones to other routes. Presently, the red-colored buses are about 350, whereas the least we need is 1000!

In mid-January through February, the order was enforced. The mini-buses were disallowed entry into Abuja, while the ones operating from within were dissipated. The condemnable decision, which caught everyone unawares, was later halted to allow for more consultations.

Fast-forward to May 2 2013, Secretary of Transport Secretariat of the FCTA, Jonathan Ivoke, said Bala had approved June 3 2013, as commencement for the restriction. At a press conference, the reasons he offered goes thus: “The policy is to move people en-masse, reduce waste of time in the traffic and improve the economy.” I for one will not decide whether this is a sound of wisdom, but does his pretext portray him as someone capable to hold the title of his office? With the intention of proving that Ivoke’s view is everything but sagacious, I will argue all of his justification.

My take on reason One: Simple reasoning helps us to comprehend that the more vehicles you have on the road, the more people you are able to convey people from one destination to another. In case Ivoke is in the dark, the buses Bala provided are way too small to ameliorate harsh conditions faced by the helpless commuters. Months after the ministry promised that more would soon be delivered, they are yet to arrive. Furthermore, isn’t it safe to conclude that his assurance that private players were ready to invest was a daylight scam?

My take on reason Two: How would your time not waste when you now have to pray for good fortune just to get transported ASAP. Also, the assumption that the ban will ease traffic is unsatisfactory. How can there be reduced gridlock when every car owner now drives, while many others are contemplating acquiring theirs?

My take on reason Three: Which economy prospers when the people are depressed and discouraged? Which economy prospers when the people are tired out and less-spirited? Which economy prospers when the people suffer acute headache due to the stress they contend with every morning and night? It is only in Nigeria everyone in government suddenly becomes an economist whenever they are trying to outline merits of even a draconian policy.

Personally, I see no reason why Bala and his Federal people hastily imposed this vexatious policy on law-abiding hustlers. The mad rush for vision 20:2020 will lead us to catastrophe if we are not careful. Can’t we just achieve the ones we can and re-strategize on others?

We all agree that as the capital of the largest Black Country on the planet, the city and its districts must be world-class. However, you don't make us suffer in the process. It is glaring that the idea is a right one with a wrong timing. Any sane human wants to see development, but would it not be perfect if adequate measures were put in place to cushion the effect of the impact that may arise from such? Why the haste? Why strangulate the electorate? Is the Minister trying to please Jonathan at all cost to retain his post?

Bala has been in this regime since April 6, 2010. Between then and now, this man had sufficient time to begin preparations for his initiative. Let us assume that all he did in his first year in office was award contracts, attest to land documents and campaign for his boss’s election. Things went well and Mr. President was re-elected, while the Minister retained his job.

Sadly, two years down the line, the best Bala could do is procuring a third of the minimum number of buses required to ferry residents. Two years down the line, Bala is just constructing parking spaces including the ongoing one at Nyanya for use of the high-capacity buses. Two years down the line, how many laudable projects has Bala commissioned in remote areas? If he had done this, the pressure on the main city would have been greatly reduced.

FCTA asserts that it consulted widely before implementing the policy but for how long did it confer? The problem with high-ranking officials in this clime is bigheadedness; everyone wants to do this and that without first taking time to address the consequence it would have on the people.

FCTA in addition claims that before concluding on the policy, it assembled the executive committees of several Unions of Road Transport to discuss the development. However, it is on record that there is now distrust within most of them as not all members gave assent to the idea. There are also allegations that the FCT ministry to ensure its plans sails through induced members of the various bodies operating in the sector with financial rewards. To buttress this, not a few of the Araba drivers who protested against the policy, accused their respective unions of betrayal.

FCTA informed Abuja residents that the mini-buses would operate in satellite towns, but the world should ask Bala to present the good roads and street lights he fixed in those places. Go to the inner part of Zuba to Dutse; Kado to Galadima; Kubwa village to Bwari; Lugbe village to Kuchigoro; Karimo to Gwagwalada; Nyanya to Ado; Kuje to Apo; Kabusa to Dakwo village; Mpape to Abaji; Deidei to Karimo; Gwagwa to Galadimawa; Lokogoma village to Kwali and see things firsthand. I find it hard to fathom why a government that is keen on achieving a mega-city status would abandon its inner settlements. For crying out loud, these are where citizens in the middle and lower class reside.

Rather than commit funds to these glorified slums FCT is always proud to list as protectorates, Bala is ready to kick the bucket so that her godmother Mrs. Patience Jonathan can get the N4 billion for a totally needless ‘Peace Mission’ project. Thank goodness Senator Smart Adeyemi and others struck out the rubbish.

Already, Rights’ Groups including Human Rights Writers Association of Nigeria (HURIWA) have described the policy as “inhumane”. It is very painful that those occupying seats of authority can be this self-centered; they care less about others since they live in choice apartments and move about in expensive cars and Jeeps, while those they claim to serve groan in untold hardship.

More sickening is when people in control involve the Supreme Being as though they abide by His commandments. I can recollect an interview in which the helmsman of Abuja said that “God’s willing, our drive to make Abuja a global reference point will be achieved.” Imagine that! He has the guts to seek God’s intervention when he has failed to do what is necessary to ease the adversity of: thousands of children who struggle to get to school every day; the pregnant women and nursing mothers who join in the rush so as to make it to the hospital in time for their ante and post-natal care; the aged and the sick who are too frail to jostle with others at bus-stops.

Like my ‘Kegites’ friends say, even the devil can quote the Holy Books. It is easy for Bala to call God’s name when he has never felt the long torturous trek from Zone 2 or Zone 3 down to Sky Memorial Plaza or Berger roundabout to get a bus.

Mr. President, you need to hear what the masses are saying about you and this policy. The name they know is ‘Goodluck Jonathan’ not ‘Bala Mohammed’; he is an appointee while you were elected. If you allow him continue to soil your name, na you sabi. You better do yourself and the poor people of Abuja some good by dropping Bala from your cabinet. Let him go and begin campaign in earnest for his Bauchi gubernatorial ambition.

Failure to heed this advice would not only further impair the image of your administration, but also make you lose more supporters in the nation's capital.

THE 4 WIFES - An Inspirational Story

There was a rich merchant who had 4 wifes. He loved the 4th wife the most and adorned her with rich robes and treated her to delicacies.He took great care of her and gave her nothing but the best.

He also loved the 3rd wife very much. He's very proud of her and always wanted to show off her to his friends. However, the merchant is always in great fear that she might run away with some other men.

He too, loved his 2nd wife. She is a very considerate person, always patient and infact is the merchant's confidante. Whenever the merchant faced some problems, he always turned to his 2nd wife and she would always help him out and tide him through difficult times.

Now, the merchant's 1st wife is a very loyal partner and has made great contributions in maintaining his wealth and business as well as taking care of the household. However, the merchant did not love the first wife and although she loved him deeply, he hardly took notice of her.

One day, the merchant fell ill. Before long, he knew that he was going to die soon. He thought of his luxurious life and told himself, "Now I have 4 wives with me. But when I die, I'll be alone. How lonely I'll be

Thus, he asked the 4th wife,"I loved you most, endowed you with the finest clothing and showered great care over you. Now that I'm dying,will you follow me and keep me company?" "No way!" replied the 4th wife andshe walked away without another word.

The answer cut like a sharp knife right into the merchant's heart. The sad merchant then asked the 3rd wife, "I have loved you so much for all my life. Now that I'm dying, will you follow me and keep me company?""No!"replied the 3rd wife."Life is so good over here! I'm going to remarry when you die!" The merchant's heart sank and turned cold.

He then asked the 2nd wife,"Ialways turned to you for helpand you've always helped meout. Now I need your help again. When I die, will you follow me and keep me company?" "I'm sorry, I can't help you out this time!" replied the 2nd wife. "At the very most, I can only send you to your grave." The answer came like a bolt of thunder and the merchant was devastated.

Then a voice called out : "I'll leave with you. I'll follow you no matter where you go." The merchant looked up and there was his first wife. She was so skinny, almost like she suffered from malnutrition. Greatly grieved, the merchant said, "I should have taken much better care of you while I could have !"

'Every man and woman has four wives or husbands. What do these wives signify?'

*THE FOURTH WIFE
The 4th 'wife' is our body. We love our body day and night. In the morning, we wash our face, put on clothing and shoes. We give food to our body. We take care of our body like the fourth wife in this story. But unfortunately, at the end of our life, the body, the first 'wife' cannot follow us to the next world. As it is stated in a commentary, 'When the last breath leaves our body, the healthy color of the face is transformed, and we lose the appearance of radiant life. Our loved ones may gather around and lament, but to no avail. When such an event occurs, the body is sent into an open field and cremated, leaving only the white ashes.'This is the destination of our body.

*THE THiRD WiFE
Our 3rd wife ? Our possessions, status and wealth. When we die, they all go to others.

*THE SECOND WiFE
The 2nd wife is our family and friends. No matter how close they had been there for us when we're alive, the furthest they can stay by us is up to the grave.

*THE FiRST WiFE
The 1st wife is in fact our soul, often neglected in our pursuit of material, wealth and sensual pleasure.

A Mother sacrifice for her child

After the Earthquake had subsided, when the rescuers reached the ruins of a young woman’s house, they saw her dead body through the cracks. But her pose was somehow strange that she knelt on her knees like a person was worshiping; her body was leaning forward, and her two hands were supporting by an object. The collapsed house had crashed her back and her head.

With so many difficulties, the leader of the rescuer team put his hand through a narrow gap on the wall to reach the woman’s body. He was hoping that this woman could be still alive. However, the cold and stiff body told him that she had passed away for sure.

He and the rest of the team left this house and were going to search the next collapsed building. For some reasons, the team leader was driven by a compelling force to go back to the ruin house of the dead woman. Again, he knelt down and used his had through the narrow cracks to search the little space under the dead body. Suddenly, he screamed with excitement,” A child! There is a child! “

The whole team worked together; carefully they removed the piles of ruined objects around the dead woman. There was a 3 months old little boy wrapped in a flowery blanket under his mother’s dead body. Obviously, the woman had made an ultimate sacrifice for saving her son. When her house was falling, she used her body to make a cover to protect her son. The little boy was still sleeping peacefully when the team leader picked him up.

The medical doctor came quickly to exam the little boy. After he opened the blanket, he saw a cell phone inside the blanket. There was a text message on the screen. It said,” If you can survive, you must remember that I love you.” This cell phone was passing around from one hand to another. Every body that read the message wept. ” If you can survive, you must remember that I love you.” Such is the mother’s love for her child...
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Heart Touching Story

One day, a poor boy who was selling goods from door to door to pay his way through school, found he had only one thin dime left, and he was hungry.

He decided he would ask for a meal at the next house. However, he lost his nerve when a lovely young woman opened the door. Instead of a meal he asked for a drink of water.

She thought he looked hungry so brought him a large glass of milk He drank it slowly, and then asked, "How much do I owe you?" "You don't owe me anything," she replied "Mother has taught us never to accept payment for a kindness." He said... "Then I thank you from my heart."

As Howard Kelly left that house, he not only felt; stronger physically, but his faith in God and man was strong also. He had been ready to give up and quit.

Years later that young woman became critically ill. The local doctors were baffled. They finally sent her to the big city, where they called in specialists to study her rare disease. Dr. Howard Kelly was called in for the consultation.

When he heard the name of the town she came from, a strange light filled his eyes. Immediately he rose and went down the hall of the hospital to her room. Dressed in his doctor's gown he went in to see her.

He recognized her at once. He went back to the consultation room determined to do his best to save her life. From that day he gave special attention to the case. After a long struggle, the battle was won. Dr. Kelly requested the business office to pass the final bill to him for approval.

He looked at it, then wrote something on the edge and the bill was sent to her room. She feared to open it, for she was sure it would take the rest of her life to pay for it all. Finally, she looked, and something caught her attention on the side as she read these words...... " Paid in full with one glass of milk." (Signed) Dr. Howard Kelly.

Tears of joy flooded her eyes as her happy heart prayed: "Thank You, GOD, that Your love has spread abroad through human hearts and hands."

Why I Cried In Public – Buhari

Former military head of state, General Muhammadu Buhari (rtd) has said that he had to weep in public because of the hardships Nigerians suffer despite the enormous wealth the country is blessed with.


Buhari, who spoke in a radio interview in Kano yesterday, blamed the bad leadership of the Peoples Democratic Party (PDP) for the country’s numerous woes.

“I joined politics on two grounds: first was, after I was out of the prison, people asked me to join politics, perhaps they saw the potential in me; the second was, the collapse of the Soviet Union in 1991 and the changes it brought about compelled me to join politics and based on multi-party system if justice will be done to all,” Buhari said.

He described as embarrassing the outcome of the recent election in the Nigeria Governors’ Forum (NGF) which is enmeshed in leadership tussle.

PDP Suspends Governor Because He Allegedly Didn’t Pick Bamanga Tukur’s Call

News emerging state that the reason for PDP's suspension of Governor Aliyu Wamakko of Sokoto state was allegedly due to the Governor not picking up phone calls from Bamanga Tukur, the PDP National Chairman. 


In a statement released in Abuja on Thursday, PDP spokesman, Olisa Metuh claimed the Wamakko was suspended because when Tukur called to ask him (Wamakko) to explain his recent comments, he (Tukur) was unable to reach him.

The Party said a letter was written to Governor Wamakko but was responded to by the PDP state Secretary; and this act, the PDP and Presidency regard as an insult, hence the decision to suspend the governor.

Governor Wamakko is out of the country on an official trip and he says he's sure the government knows and a source hinted that Wamakko will “react” on his return.

Chelsea Release Florent Malouda, Paulo Ferreira And Yossi Benayoun


Florent Malouda and Paulo Ferreira are among the high-profile players who will leave Chelsea this summer.


France winger Malouda and Portugal full-back Ferreira will not be retained when their contracts are up at the end of the month.

And the list of departures also includes Yossi Benayoun and goalkeepers Ross Turnbull and Hilario.
Malouda was a second-half substitute in Chelsea's Champions League final triumph against Bayern Munich little more than a year ago, but that proved to be his final appearance for the club.
The 32-year-old, who made 230 appearances following a £13.5m move from Lyon in 2007, was not even given a squad number this season.

Ferreira's exit comes after a nine-year spell featuring three Premier League title wins while Benayoun, who returned to Stamford Bridge last season after a year at Arsenal, did not convince the Chelsea hierarchy he was worth a new deal.

The departures of Turnbull and Hilario, meanwhile, will inevitably lead to speculation over the future of Thibaut Courtois.

The young Belgian keeper has spent the past two seasons on loan at Atletico Madrid and said recently he would like to stay in Spain for a third year.

I Was Forced At Gun Point To Participate In Killing of Policemen – Jackson Fabouwei

The military on Friday said they had arrested the “mastermind” of an April attack that killed 11 policemen and raised fears of worsening tension in a crucial oil region.


The arrested militant leader, Jackson Fabouwei aka Jasper Junior, Friday revealed he took part in the killing of eleven policemen last April in the creek of Southern Ijaw local government area of Bayelsa State.

Fabouwei who spoke to newsmen at the Sector command of the Joint Task Force codenamed Operation Pulo Shield after his arrest said he was forced at gun point to participate in the killing of the policemen.
He said, “the killing was led by General Virus and carried out with seven AK 47 guns and Kala gun stolen from the country home of their former leader, known as Young Shall Grow.”
He added, “As a surveillance contractor, I had MG 3 Machine gun and we gathered at Lobia market to launch the attack on the policemen.

“We positioned at the market and waited for the boat convoy of the burial procession for the mother of the ex-militant leader.
The Policemen boat came to the jetty, but General Virus insisted that the policemen should be killed and we opened fire on them.

“When we came down from the shooting point, we saw that one was injured while others were killed. I pleaded and asked that we save the lives of the ones that were not dead but Virus said Young Shall Grow has offended them many times and the policemen must be executed. He was also the one that ordered that we pour them fuel and burn them.”
Jackson Fabouwei was presented to journalists in the oil hub of Yenagoa and backed previous reports that the shootings were linked to a dispute over government payments to ex-oil rebels.
“He was arrested on the 6th of June… through sound intelligence gathering efforts,” Colonel Farouk Yahaya of the military’s Joint Task Force said.

He described Fabouwei as “the mastermind” of the deadly raid.
The attack in the Niger Delta targeted an ex-militant leader turned government advisor who was being escorted by security agents to his mother’s funeral when gunmen opened fire on their convoy of boats.
The target, Kile Selky Torughedi, widely known by the moniker Young Shall Grow, was a prominent militant in the insurgency that for years crippled the oil sector in Africa’s largest producer.
A 2009 amnesty deal that saw huge payouts to ex-militants significantly curbed the unrest.
But the attack on Torughedi warned that tensions persist, including among former insurgents over how to divide the government cash.
Fabouwei denied that he planned the shootings.
He said the leader of his gang, identified as “General Virus”, ordered the attack on Torughedi because he was hoarding amnesty funds.

“General Virus told us he has not been giving amnesty money,” Fabouwei told reporters.
Police had previously said the attack was motivated by a dispute over amnesty payouts.
Young Shall Grow had also been appointed a security advisor to the area governor.
Sporadic violence has continued in the Niger Delta since the amnesty, including waves of kidnappings targeting foreign oil workers, with the hostages typically released following a ransom payment.
Analysts have warned that unrest in the region could intensify if the amnesty payments are scaled back.